A Steady Peaceful Mind: Developing Concentration
Sep
27
to Sep 29

A Steady Peaceful Mind: Developing Concentration

Concentration is one of the 5 strengths of Buddhist practice (along with faith, energy, mindfulness and wisdom). How concentrated is your mind?

Join InsightLA Senior Teacher Melissa McKay for a non-residential weekend retreat devoted to developing concentration and thereby, a steady and peaceful mind.

A Steady, Peaceful Mind

Our minds aren’t naturally concentrated.  It takes intention and practice to develop concentration as a habit of mind.  Doing so brings great benefit to our efforts in the world.  When our attention is focused versus scattered our work is more effective, our creative capacity broadens and deepens, we listen better and feel more connected and at ease in our life.  

Concentration also benefits our spiritual development.  When the mind is concentrated, the negativity of the mind is held at bay, making us serene, tranquil, joyful, and able to see more clearly.  A concentrated mind is quiet, clear and luminous, ripe for blissful states of consciousness.

Who is this retreat for?

This non-residential retreat is for anyone who would like to work on developing concentration, tranquility, joy, and bliss. We will learn about the 40 different concentration objects that the Buddha taught.

Expect both sitting and walking meditation practices, dharma talks, and space for optional sharing and discussion. 

Participants are welcome to sign up for one or both days of this retreat. The schedule is as follows: 

Friday:
6-7:30pm  Introduction and Talk
7:30-7:45  Stretch
7:45-8:30 Meditation

Saturday and Sunday:
6-6:45am  Optional meditation at home
6:45-8    Breakfast at home
8:30-9:30   Guided meditation
9:30-10:15  Walking meditation
10:15-11    Sitting meditation
11-11:30  Walking meditation
11:30-1pm   Lunch and rest
1-2     Sitting meditation
2-2:45  Walking meditation 
2:45- 3:30  Sitting meditation
3:30- 4  Tea and optional talking
4-5   Questions and Discussion
5-9  Optional home practice on Saturday night

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Annual Summer Insight Retreat
Jul
12
to Jul 15

Annual Summer Insight Retreat

Time in retreat allows us to step out of the complexity of our life, to listen deeply to our body, heart and mind.

A retreat provides an opportunity and a caring container, deepening our meditation practice. The mindfulness practice on retreats is often accompanied and complemented by training in loving-kindness meditation.

Most of the retreat is held in silence, with periods of sitting and walking meditation There are teaching talks, guided meditations, and time for questions and answers. Three healthy vegetarian meals are provided for participants and dietary restrictions are accommodated to whenever possible.

Retreatants are encouraged to practice mindfulness in a continuous way, staying with their own present experience as it unfolds, moment to moment. In this silent and mindful environment, awareness sharpens, the body quiets, the mind clears, and space opens for insight and understanding to develop.

By cultivating the power of awareness, clarity and kindness, we discover our path to inner freedom and a peaceful heart for the benefit or our relationship to ourselves, our community and our wider world.

Dana/Generosity: Teacher compensation is not included in the registration fee. There will be an opportunity at the end of retreat to make a donation to the teachers. Thank you for your support! *note: as of June 2023, we will not be accepting cash. Credit cards and checks are accepted. 

Schedule:
Friday
3:00 pm – 5:00pm Arrive and Settle
5:30 pm – 6:30 pm Dinner
7:00 – 9:00 pm Opening Ceremony

Monday
11:00 am Retreat Ends

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Clear Seeing: A Weekend Vipassana Retreat
May
31
to Jun 2

Clear Seeing: A Weekend Vipassana Retreat

To see clearly is to see things as they are, absent of our judgments and stories. When we see clearly, we shed negativity and stress and live more freely.

Join Senior Teacher Melissa McKay for a non-residential weekend vipassana retreat. Cultivate tranquility and clear inner seeing by spending time in silence, alternating between periods of sitting and walking meditation.

About Vipassana

Vipassana is an ancient, transformative meditation technique. Through self-observation, deep insight arises. In Vipassana, we focus attention on the body and mind, observing sensations and the movement of energy as it arises, then dissipates again. 

Among the many benefits of Vipassana is the cultivation of inner peace and clarity. To see clearly is to see things, including ourselves, as they truly are.

Who is this retreat for?

This weekend retreat is for anyone who is ready to deepen their meditation practice and live with greater lucidity and therefore, ease.  

Suitable for all levels, this non-residential weekend experience is a good opportunity for those who would like to learn more about intensive retreat practice. 

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Clear Seeing: A Weekend Vipassana Retreat
Apr
26
to Apr 28

Clear Seeing: A Weekend Vipassana Retreat

To see clearly is to see things as they are, absent of our judgments and stories. When we see clearly, we shed negativity and stress and live more freely.

Join Senior Teacher Melissa McKay for a non-residential weekend vipassana retreat. Cultivate tranquility and clear inner seeing by spending time in silence, alternating between periods of sitting and walking meditation.

About Vipassana

Vipassana is an ancient, transformative meditation technique. Through self-observation, deep insight arises. In Vipassana, we focus attention on the body and mind, observing sensations and the movement of energy as it arises, then dissipates again. 

Among the many benefits of Vipassana is the cultivation of inner peace and clarity. To see clearly is to see things, including ourselves, as they truly are.

Who is this retreat for?

This weekend retreat is for anyone who is ready to deepen their meditation practice and live with greater lucidity and therefore, ease.  

Suitable for all levels, this non-residential weekend experience is a good opportunity for those who would like to learn more about intensive retreat practice. 

Where is this event located? 

This event will take place in-person at the Benedict Canyon Retreat House. Find directions, information on what to bring and more at the link. As a non-residential retreat, participants will return home Friday and Saturday evening.

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Boundless Heart Metta Retreat
Feb
9
to Feb 11

Boundless Heart Metta Retreat

Join me for two days of intensive Metta meditation practice.  The retreat will be held mostly in silence alternating between sitting and walking meditation.

In Buddhist practice, Metta is one of the four brahma viharas which means highest abodes or dwelling place.  What that means it is one of the most sublime dwelling places for our hearts and minds.  When it is present, it breaks down the walls of limited and negative thinking.  It helps us to overcome worry and fears, doubts and sorrows.  It brings clarity, serenity and confidence to our minds.  And it is a powerful healer of all that afflicts us both mentally and physically. 

Everyone is welcome, regardless of previous meditation experience.

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Eat Like the Buddha: A Four Week Intermittent Fasting Class
Jan
7
4:00 PM16:00

Eat Like the Buddha: A Four Week Intermittent Fasting Class

he benefits of intermittent fasting are well documented in modern science.  They include improved memory, blood pressure and resting heart rates, loss of fat, better insulin resistance and improved endurance. The most popular use of intermittent fasting is the 16/8 model where you eat all calories within an 8 hour window per day and then fast the rest of the day.

This way of eating has been practiced by meditators since the time of the Buddha.  In intensive retreat practice and in the life of monastics, no food is taken after lunch.  It is done because of the spiritual benefits such as mental clarity and luminosity, overcoming craving and less reactivity.  

This 4 week class is to give you the support and tools you need to intermittently fast for 28 days so that you can experience these benefits (physical, emotional and spiritual) for yourself.

Schedule Sundays 4-5:30pm PT:
Jan 7
Jan 14
Jan 21
Jan 28

Suggested Donation: $170

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Living From the Heart:  A Two Day Metta Retreat
Dec
8
to Dec 10

Living From the Heart: A Two Day Metta Retreat

The ancient Buddhist teaching of metta meditation is a training in discovering and harnessing this power of love.

Join Melissa McKay at the beautiful Benedict Canyon Retreat House for a non-residential, in-depth, two day exploration of this heart-based practice.  

A Two Day Metta Retreat

The suttas say that by practicing metta we familiarize ourselves with the quality of loving-kindness. We personally experience its effect as it expands our hearts and minds and helps us overcome our fears and self-doubt.

Further, we gain faith and trust in loving-kindness as a truly helpful and powerful force that can help heal others, too.  Metta liberates our own minds and. as the antidote for divisiveness and hatred, is the force we need to heal our society.

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Cultivating Awareness and Gratitude
Nov
11
8:00 AM08:00

Cultivating Awareness and Gratitude

Our minds tendency is to notice what is missing from our lives leaving us feeling unfulfilled and stuck in a cycle of constant craving.  The practice of gratitude counters this tendency helping us to arrive in our lives more completely and connect with the gifts and beauty of life that is always there.

In this daylong we will incorporate gratitude practice into our mindfulness practice.  This practice can help to nurture our connection with present moment, make us sleep more deeply, boosts our mood and immunity and helps us to deal with the pains in life.

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28 Day Manifestation Challenge
Aug
27
12:00 PM12:00

28 Day Manifestation Challenge

Manifestation is simple. To manifest you maintain an image of yourself in the condition that you would like to have in your life as if it is already here. Although it is simple, many people have difficulty maintaining that image. It takes a gentle discipline to apply practices and techniques in order to keep that vision to the degree that you believe it.

In this zoom class I will offer 3 techniques and 28 days of support via email to help you maintain the image of the goal in your life so that you can manifest it. We will meet for the 3 hour workshop where the techniques will be offered and then have two optional check in meetings on September 3rd and 17th at 11am.

Cost: $125 or $75 if you have taken the class in the last two years

To register email me at inquiry@melissamckay.net

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A Steady, Peaceful Mind: Developing Concentration
Aug
4
to Aug 6

A Steady, Peaceful Mind: Developing Concentration

Concentration is one of the 5 strengths of Buddhist practice (along with faith, energy, mindfulness and wisdom). How concentrated is your mind?

On August 4th, join InsightLA Senior Teacher Melissa McKay for a non-residential weekend retreat devoted to developing concentration and thereby, a steady and peaceful mind.

A Steady, Peaceful Mind  

Our minds aren’t naturally concentrated.  It takes intention and practice to develop concentration as a habit of mind.  Doing so brings great benefit to our efforts in the world.  When our attention is focused versus scattered our work is more effective, our creative capacity broadens and deepens, we listen better and feel more connected and at ease in our life.  

Concentration also benefits our spiritual development.  When the mind is concentrated, the negativity of the mind is held at bay, making us serene, tranquil, joyful, and able to see more clearly.  A concentrated mind is quiet, clear and luminous, ripe for blissful states of consciousness.

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28 Day Manifestation Challenge
Jul
23
12:00 PM12:00

28 Day Manifestation Challenge

Our minds are powerful creators. When directed, we can overcome limited thinking, fears and doubts. When we change our habitual thoughts and beliefs our life changes. In this class you will learn 3 techniques that will help you to gain confidence in yourself and your goals in order for you to create the life that you want. You will be giving support over 28 days to help you remember to do the practices so that you experience the benefits for yourself.

There will be two optional check in days August 6th and August 20th at 11am.

Cost: New students $125 If you have taken the class in the last 2 years $75

To register email inquiry@melissamckay.net

Testimonials:

“This class was hugely beneficial to me. My days feel effortless and joyful even in the midst of difficulty.”

“My mind is in a very peaceful place. I notice that the negative voices are simply gone.”

“Opportunities began to pop up out of nowhere.

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Clear Seeing:  A Weekend Vipassana Retreat
Jun
23
to Jun 25

Clear Seeing: A Weekend Vipassana Retreat

  • 9940 Westwanda Drive Beverly Hills, CA, 90210 United States (map)
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To see clearly is to see things as they are, absent of our judgments and stories. When we see clearly, we shed negativity and stress and live more freely.

Join Senior Teacher Melissa McKay for a non-residential weekend vipassana retreat. Cultivate tranquility and clear inner seeing by spending time in silence, alternating between periods of sitting and walking meditation.

About Vipassana

Vipassana is an ancient, transformative meditation technique. Through self-observation, deep insight arises. In Vipassana, we focus attention on the body and mind, observing sensations and the movement of energy as it arises, then dissipates again. 

Among the many benefits of Vipassana is the cultivation of inner peace and clarity. To see clearly is to see things, including ourselves, as they truly are.

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Manifestation: 28 Day Challenge
Jun
4
12:00 PM12:00

Manifestation: 28 Day Challenge

Our minds are powerful creators. When directed, we can use this power to overcome limited thinking, fears and doubts. When we change our thoughts and beliefs, our life changes. In this class you will learn 3 techniques that will help you to gain confidence in yourself and your goals in order for you to intentionally create what you really want.

Support is offered via email over 28 days to help you remember to bring these beneficial practices into your life.

We will meet midway briefly on June 18th and then at the end of the 28 days on July 2nd at noon. These meetings are optional.

Testimonials:

“This class was hugely beneficial to me. My days feel effortless and joyful, even in the midst of difficulty.”

“My mind is in a very peaceful place. I notice that the negative voices are simply gone.”

“After implementing the practices from this class, opportunities began to pop up out of no where. I’m taking the class again to deepen these practices.”

“I”m almost shocked that after taking this class, I manifested what I wanted very quickly. I will keep these practices with me for the rest of my life.”

Discounted cost $75

To register: email me at inquiry@melissamckay.net

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Freeing the Heart:  A Weekend Metta Retreat
May
26
to May 28

Freeing the Heart: A Weekend Metta Retreat

  • 9940 Westwanda Drive Beverly Hills, CA, 90210 United States (map)
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An open heart is a free heart. What would it feel like to move through the world free from negativity, ill-will, or habitual reactivity to your likes and dislikes? Join Senior Teacher Melissa McKay for a non-residential weekend metta retreat. Cultivate a more expansive heart, and free yourself from the resistance and aversion that causes us pain.  

What is Metta?

Metta is a Pali word which is often translated as loving kindness, benevolence, friendliness or goodwill. It is a powerful mindstate we can harness to free the mind of negativity for a life of greater happiness and ease. Metta meditation is a heart-opening form of meditation in which we send loving kindness to ourselves and others, typically in the form of a wish. 

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Online Vipassana Retreat with New York Insight
Apr
29
8:00 AM08:00

Online Vipassana Retreat with New York Insight

“If you want to understand the mind, sit down and observe it.” – Anagarika Munindra

There is no scientific tool to observe the mind. The only way to do it is in the first person – and Vipassana meditation is a powerful instrument we can use to understand the mind.

Join meditation teacher Melissa McKay for this day of practice of Vipassana (insight) meditation. Together we will develop mindfulness and concentration to explore our minds to understand them and ourselves more deeply.

There will be instruction, questions and answers, and lots of time to practice together. This program is appropriate for both beginner and more experienced students.

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28 days of Manifesting
Apr
16
12:00 PM12:00

28 days of Manifesting

In this class you will learn to use the power of the mind to overcome limited thinking, fears and doubts to create things you'd like to see happen in your life.  You will learn creative visualization techniques, intentional thought and gratitude practices and techniques for cultivating faith, trust and confidence in yourself and your goals.

You will recive emails for 28 days to support you in remembering to really put these practices to work.

Discounted cost $75

To register: email me at inquiry@melissamckay.net

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Mindfulness Practice:  Easter Sunday Daylong
Apr
9
9:00 AM09:00

Mindfulness Practice: Easter Sunday Daylong

A day of practice on Easter Sunday to restore and heal, energize, clarify and invigorate our minds. Offered freely, donations welcome. Join me.

To register, email me at inquiry@melissamckay.net.

Schedule:

9-9:30 Sitting Meditation

9:30-10 Dharma Talk

10-10:30 Metta meditation

10:30-11 Break or alternate posture meditation

11-11:45 Sitting Meditation

11:45-12:30 Lunch

12:30-1:30 Sitting Meditation

1:30-2:15 Break or alternate posture meditation

2:15-3 Sitting Meditation

3-3:45 Break or alternate posture meditation

3:45-4:30 Sitting Meditation

4:30-5 Closing and questions

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Online Metta Daylong with New York Insight
Feb
11
8:00 AM08:00

Online Metta Daylong with New York Insight

Metta is considered to be one of the highest mind states that we can experience. In meditation we develop this ever beneficial habit of mind. And when we do, our ego dissolves and we are aligned with the highest kind of energy there is.

The benefits are many including, better sleep, a more radiant complexion and a decrease of fear, anxiety and self doubt.

There will be instructions and a Q&A and a lot of time to practice. This program is appropriate for both beginners and more experienced students.

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Clear Seeing:  A Weekend Vipassana Retreat
Feb
3
to Feb 5

Clear Seeing: A Weekend Vipassana Retreat

Join Senior Teacher Melissa McKay for a 2-day plus 1-evening non-residential Vipassana retreat at the Benedict Canyon Retreat House. 

The weekend will be spent in silence with alternating periods of sitting and walking meditation to cultivate tranquility and clear inner seeing. When we see clearly we shed the negativity and stress of the mind and live more freely.  

This retreat is good for experienced students or beginners that want to learn about intensive retreat practice. You are welcome to participate from early morning until late evening on Saturday or you can opt for an early ending at 5:30pm. 

See schedule below:

Friday:
6-7pm  Introduction and Talk
7-7:45pm Walking meditation
7:45-8:30  Sitting meditation

Saturday:
6-6:45  Sitting meditation (at home – optional)
6:45-8  Breakfast (at home)
8:30-9:30am  Guided meditation at Benedict Canyon Retreat House
9:30-10:30 Walking meditation
10:30-11:30 Sitting meditation
11:30-12  Group questions and discussion
12-1:30pm  Lunch and resting
1:30-2:15 Sitting meditation
2:15-3:15 Walking meditation
3:15-4 Sitting meditation
4-4:30 Tea break
4:30-5:30 Dharma talk
5:30-8:30  Continue practice (optional)

Sunday:
6-6:45  Sitting meditation (at home optional)
6:45-8  Breakfast (at home)
8:30-9:30am  Guided meditation at Benedict Canyon Retreat House
9:30-10:30 Walking meditation
10:30-11:30 Sitting meditation
11:30-12  Group questions and discussion
12-1:30pm  Lunch and resting
1:30-2:15 Sitting meditation
2:15-3:15 Walking meditation
3:15-4 Sitting meditation
4-4:30 Tea break
4:30-5:30 Dharma talk and closing

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Online: Metta Meditation Daylong
Jan
17
1:30 PM13:30

Online: Metta Meditation Daylong

Join Melissa McKay for a day of practice of Metta (lovingkindness) meditation.

Metta is considered to be one of the highest mind states that we can experience. In meditation we develop this ever beneficial habit of mind. And when we do, our ego dissolves and we are aligned with the highest kind of energy there is.

The benefits are many including, better sleep, a more radiant complexion and a decrease of fear, anxiety and self doubt.

There will be instructions and a Q&A and a lot of time to practice. This program is appropriate for both beginners and more experienced students.

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A Gentle New Year's Eve
Dec
31
7:00 PM19:00

A Gentle New Year's Eve

Join Melissa McKay for a gentle New Year’s Eve. 

We will practice mindfulness and loving kindness meditation and set our intentions for the year. We will share in a toast together to have a gentle, uplifting, onward leading, loving and inspiring year, with a vision that a better, more healthy, more harmonious, more peaceful 2023.

Suggested Donation: $35

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Strengthening the Heart: A Two Day Metta Retreat
Dec
3
to Dec 4

Strengthening the Heart: A Two Day Metta Retreat

Join InsightLA senior teacher Melissa McKay for two days of practicing Metta meditation. Metta means friendliness, benevolence or lovingkindness. It is called a liberating practice because when metta is there, it frees the mind from fear, worry, doubt, anger and annoyance and many other afflictive emotion.

It is possible to develop in any human heart and in this two day retreat, we will be doing just that. The benefits of metta practice are vast and the emphasis will be on practicing so that we can experience the many benefits for ourselves.
 

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A Steady, Peaceful Mind: Developing Concentration (1 or 2 day retreat)
Oct
22
to Oct 23

A Steady, Peaceful Mind: Developing Concentration (1 or 2 day retreat)

Concentration is one of the 5 strengths of Buddhist practice (along with faith, energy, mindfulness and wisdom).  Our minds aren’t naturally concentrated.  It takes intention and practice to develop concentration as a habit of mind.  Doing so brings great benefit to our efforts in the world:  when the attention is not scattered our work is more effective, we compete better, our creative capacity broadens and deepens, we listen better and feel more serene in our life.  

Concentration also brings benefits to our spiritual development.  When the mind is concentrated, the negativity of the mind is held at bay–making us serene, tranquil, joyful, and able to see more clearly.  When the mind is concentrated, it is quiet, clear and luminous and can lead to blissful states of consciousness.  

In this retreat we will work on developing concentration, tranquility, joy, and bliss and learn about the 40 different concentration objects that the Buddha taught.

You are welcome to sign up for one day or both days of this retreat.

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Metta 1 or 2 Day Retreat
Jul
9
to Jul 10

Metta 1 or 2 Day Retreat

The Buddha taught his followers that if they wanted something they should put in the causes to make that thing happen.  In the discourse on loving kindness he said, “Here’s what should be done by one who is skilled in goodness and who knows the path of peace….” He then followed with instructions for cultivating lovingkindness.  There is a path to war and there is a path to peace.  Which one will we follow? 

Metta practice helps us to follow the path of peace. It brings peace with in us and helps us to overcome stress and difficult emotions. And it helps us to make clear and wise actions in the world that lead to good things for ourselves and our communities.

Join us for a weekend retreat of loving kindness practice.  The retreat will be practice based alternating between sitting and walking meditation.  You have the option of joining for one day. 

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At Home Vipassana Retreat: 1 or 2 day
Jun
4
to Jun 5

At Home Vipassana Retreat: 1 or 2 day

Make your home your temple for this weekend vipassana retreat.  We will practice mindfulness in all activities and in formal sitting meditation and walking meditation periods.  

You are welcome to sign up for one day (Saturday) or both days of this retreat.

Schedule PT:
Saturday:
9am Welcome/ Opening meditation
10am Walking meditation
11am Sitting meditation
12pm Lunch/ home duties
2pm Sitting meditation
3pm Walking meditation
4pm Dharma Talk.
5pm optional continued practice for the evening

Sunday:
9am Guided sitting meditation
10am Walking meditation
11am Sitting meditation
12pm Lunch/ home duties
2pm Sitting meditation
3pm Walking meditation
4pm Dharma Talk.
5pm optional continued practice for the evening

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Buddhist Tools for Alleviating Stress
Apr
4
to Apr 25

Buddhist Tools for Alleviating Stress

The Buddha had a fine understanding of the human psyche.  He saw clearly what agitates and torments the minds of humans.  He said, “I teach one thing and one thing only, stress and the end of stress.”  And the whole of his path is for that purpose: alleviating or potentially eradicating stress.  

It is commonly understood that mindfulness and meditation practice alleviate stress and they surely do, but the lines aren’t always drawn between stress and other parts of Buddhist practice.  In this series, we will address the deeper causes of anxiety and stress in our minds and work with the tools of practice to live with less stress and anxiety.

Schedule 6-7:30pm PT:
April 4
April 11
April 18
April 25

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